Arrange Marriage Vs Love Marriage

 Acknowledgements :

It was a great experience for me to do this research. I tried my best to pass through all steps (collecting, sorting, analyzing, organizing) to make valid and reliable inference. And I am very thankful to them who helped me to complete my research.

First of all, thanks to Almighty ALLAH for giving me the knowledge and strength of doing this research properly. I want to express my deepest gratitude and indebtedness to my respected madam Dr.Nadra Islam, lecturer, Department of English, for her proper guidance and encouragement for this work and also for assigning me such a topic that enhances my analytical thinking as well as judgment. Honestly it is my pleasure that she was so careful and helping minded throughout the semester so that I could present him an acceptable and excellent research paper in term of quality and quantity of valid  information .I am also grateful to my friend, survey respondents and the people who helped me in data collection.

There was some limitation that I had to accept during the completion of this research. The main limitation was I could not take thoughts of many people for the time inconvenience.I could not take qualitative research as lack of willingness of people for open ended questionnaires as a result I had to depend on the information provided by quantities survey. In this case there might be some possibility of error in the data that I had collected.But I tried my best to make this research more reliable.

I want to talk about my limitations that I had to accept during the completion of this research. The major limitation where I could not take thoughts of many people for the time inconvenience. I could not manage to take qualitative research as lack of willingness of people for open ended questionnaires as a result I had to rely on this information provided by quantities survey. So there might be some possibility of error in the data that I have collected. However I believe that I tried my level best to make this research more reliable and expectable.

Finally I am very grateful and want to thank all the students and honorable faculty member of my university for being  so helpful and give me their feedback to complete my task.  

Abstract:

 Love, responsive, reciprocal respect, faith, commitment and togetherness is the main element of a successful marriage. While many couples are capable to invent all this components in their matrimonial relationships, others search one ingredient or more uninterested in their relation. This gives increase to consequences that are not ever awaited, or wished for. And it is a reason  why a number of couples face unfavorable outcomes, like divorce. One of the visible thoughts why married couples search marriage as a threaten relation is that they face a number of problems, while being in the relationship. Lack of trust, mutual respect, love and understanding contribute to the deterioration of the bond.

The effects of love marriage and arranged marriage on people are varied . a big number of people defined the love marriage as better understanding and defined arranged marriage as marry according to family choice. The better part of people prefer love marriage to spend whole life with loving person and similarly majority of people prefer arranged marriage due to get family support. According to better part of people’s opinion, the disadvantage of love marriage is  family disagree (one may have to go in the opposition of family demand) and likewise the disadvantages of arranged marriage are demand of dowry and lack of faith. Through this research, I collect that independent thinker people prefer love marriage more than arranged marriage and that kind of people who supportive, obedient to family are prefer arranged marriage more than love marriage.

INTRODUCTION :

Marriage is defined differently and by different entities,based on cultural, religious and personal factors. Generally  marriage is a socially or ritually recognized union between spouses that establishes rights and obligations between those spouses. In briefly Marriage is founded on the truth that men and women are complementary, the biological actuality that regeneration relies on a man and a woman, and the fact that children require a mother and a father.

 It is society’s least prevailing behalf of assuring the well-being of children. By inspiring the pattern of marriage-monogamy, sexual exclusivity, and permanence-the state strengthens civil society and minimizes its own role. The future of this country builds on the future of marriage. The future of marriage depends on citizens understanding what it is and why it matters.

In terms of some religious view people think that, marriages are formed in heaven and performed on earth. The popular belief is true to many limitation, because it is an extraordinary connection shared between two souls, who commitment to be comrade for a lifetime. It is the physical, mental and spiritual mixture of two souls. It introduces momentous durability and substance to human relationships, which is otherwise incomplete. It acts a crucial foreword in transmitting the culture and civilization from one descendant to the other, so that the human race is developed. The introduction of marriage is remunerative to the society as a whole, as it is the cornerstone of the family, which in turn is the unavoidable building block of the society. While the notion of marriage keeps the identical over the globe, the process of solemnizing it differs widely. Several laws have been created to legitimize the ritual, which substantiate to be an essential inclination point in one's life. Apart from the laws of marriages, the rituals following during the ceremony are in total contrast to each other. Something that is noticed in the western countries cannot be testified in other nations in the developing world, primarily due to the contrast in the lifestyle and religious beliefs. One of the ultimate causes for the foremost status of marriage is that it is the authorization for two persons to live together in a society, without much restriction.

Love, responsive, reciprocal respect, faith, commitment and togetherness is the main element of a successful marriage. While many couples are capable to invent all this components in their matrimonial relationships, others search one ingredient or more uninterested in their relation. This gives increase to consequences that are not ever awaited, or wished for. And it is a reason  why a number of couples face unfavorable outcomes, like divorce. One of the visible thoughts why married couples search marriage as a threaten relation is that they face a number of problems, while being in the relationship. Lack of trust, mutual respect, love and understanding contribute to the deterioration of the bond.

There are two types of marriage. One is arranged marriage and another is love marriage.

Arranged marriage: Arranged marriages were very common throughout the world until the 18th century. Typically, marriages were arranged by parents, grandparents or other relatives.

Love marriage: Love marriage is where the individuals love each other and get married with or without consent of their parents.

Background:

Marriage is a legal contract that connects two people.

Marriage can be recognized by a state, an organization, a religious authority, a tribal group, a local community, or peers. It is often viewed as a contract. Civil marriage, which does not exist in some countries, is marriage without religious content carried out by a government institution in accordance with the marriage laws of the jurisdiction, and recognized as creating the rights and obligations intrinsic to matrimony. Marriages can be performed in a secular civil ceremony or in a religious setting via a wedding ceremony.

According to different religious ,the definition is different. Such as

• Marriage in Islam:

In Islam, marriage is a legal contract between two people. Both the groom and the bride are to consent to the marriage of their own free wills. A formal, binding contract is considered integral to a religiously valid Islamic marriage, and outlines the rights and responsibilities of the groom and bride. There must be two Muslim witnesses of the marriage contract. Divorce in Islam can take a variety of forms, some initiated by the husband and some initiated by the wife.In addition to the usual marriage until death or divorce, there is a different fixed-term  marriage known as Zawāj al-mutʻah ("pleasure marriage") permitted only by the Twelver branch of Shia Islam for a pre-fixed period. There is also NikahMisyar, a non-temporary marriage with the removal of some conditions such as living together, permitted by Sunni Muslims.